Quotes of the day from "a defeat is time to build energies, should be treated as a stepping point for the victories that follow. " Indeed, failure is not a problem as long as we keep trying, not losing hope and determination to bounce back for the ultimate victories. In encountering death end, the thing to surpass is to combat the weaknesses within ourself, open up a new pathway that reveals the fundamental purposes of our life.
Today, I have heard of a relationship problem, from my sister, that seemed to bother her all along her life till now. She has not had any long-lasting relationship. Right now, she is facing a communication issue with her boyfriend whom often gives her bad mood, teasing her, commented on her independence, and bad mathematics, even had faded out from the feelings of love. This is suicidal for a relationship, which is pandemic being a sickness of love.
What is love? Is supposed to be a supportive, mutually beneficial chain that bound to in a common goal, being started in different origin, different mindset, but could be brought together into a good way. Ideal, complete, is pursued by everyone, perhaps, however, how many people could attain that? I am seeking for it either.
He might not have interest to me? He might just entertain me? I and he might not have so much of topics to engage to? These questions bothered me. I am trying to make my life interesting by looking into opportunities that could explore me more, make me grow. On the other side, I afraid once I had that opportunity, I could not handle it, then fail the challenges. He said, faith is part of life, we must keep updated and read other material too, do not be too aggressive in Buddhism study, that neglected knowledges from the other side.
The other thing that challenge me is I was small-hearted, which means I am easily swayed by small matters, these could badly affect my emotion, makes me pay no more concentration to chanting, study, and working. This is things I need to change, be more focus, Joey run Joey=))
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