Loving somebody older

I don't deny that once I had in love with a mature guy, and I felt that mature guy is ok for me because he is financially stable and emotionally well managed simply also because he is equipped with car and house. The most important thing is he treated you good, your sis good and your family good. Plus  he is a Soka member, a soon-2-be leader that is down to earth, passionately persisting in kosen rufu. I had witnessed his passion in sharing Buddhism and joyfully giving encouragement. He is indeed a trustworthy man, a near to perfect guy with good hygiene and disciplined diet, a healthy and saving man!

But the problem is now my sister kind of having real disaster with an old guy whom is 31years old, a cycle older than her, and the point is she is just broke up with her bf likewise to the old guy too. Ok, maybe it's rude to call him old guy but he is not young to my sister, by the way there is no mean of offense. And it happened that this guy without acknowledging my mother had brought out my sister to other place until late night, even with his position as a Soka member. This is not a good model where there are rules to bring home a YWD before they go back too late at night. This has worried my mother and friends around. It has becoming serious till extent of we need to monitor their progress and warn the both parties indirectly to prevent things get worsen. This is not a blessed relationship where the age had differed so greatly.

To somebody that u love you have to grab it and do it fairly, take the opportunity and make it success=)