My friend to be exact is roommate, she broke up with her boyfriend, a man whom I knew, my senior. He is type of man whom I think needs passion and consistent caring, while this girl is cool and calm. These two people aren't that match (I felt) and yet I delivered the blessing to them since they started together. I was shocked when the man told me about he started loving the girl, and had given much efforts to be with her. About the girl, she is calm, cool and talented, she speaks less, but knows a lot, she learn things fast, mostly from Facebook and social nets. She had common interest with the man that is they love songs, and music.
Just now from her, after the post-broke up dialogue, he had even criticized her, what a gentleman, he don't deserve respect in this point. I felt terribly sorry and sad for my friend, whom had think so long, suffered so much when the man try to get the relationship, I felt so terrible, that is why I am not confident to commit relationship, never last long, not economic and time wasting.
10 months is the limit, my sis's case and her case, 10 months is suffice to see the weaknesses and see whether both could adapt to the respective lifestyle and type. Better late (test longer) than sorry (broke hearts). This is a precious lesson I have learnt from this, not only this, and that too.
Luckily she is ok, she is a tough girl and could see things clear, but she can't change her bad habits such as lazy, not assertive, last-minutes person. Despite that, she is indeed an information hub where she knows things from internet and have endless interest in culture and arts.
This is she, my roommate^^ May her next relationship be blessed and she would definitely get a better man.=)
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